We are sharing a story from Nicole Miranda, a 32-year-old affiliate marketer, who used to earn up to $400 per day by chatting with men on the Meete and ToChat dating apps. However, she transitioned to affiliate marketing and now she focuses on promoting these apps on TikTok to gain referral commissions.
In this article, Nicole shares her journey with the team at Business Insider, explaining how she got started with making money on dating apps to how she transitioned to affiliate marketing. She also shares lots of valuable insights about dating apps and how she advocates for people to take on alternative income opportunities like affiliate marketing.
Background Story
I have bipolar disorder, which has made it challenging for me to hold regular jobs. Before the pandemic, I worked as a saleswoman at Verizon, living paycheck to paycheck. When the pandemic hit, I took a year off due to burnout.
When my unemployment benefits were running out, I was reluctant to return to my previous job. Dealing with irritating customers on a daily basis, usually through no fault of my own, was exhausting. One day, while scrolling on TikTok, I discovered a video about an app where men paid to have conversations. Intrigued, I downloaded Meete and began using it.
Earning Money Through Meete and Tochat Dating Apps
Initially, I was glued to the app, spending every waking hour trying to earn money. Now, I use both Meete and ToChat apps to accumulate cash-out points. I can earn up to $200 per app per day by interacting with men, making around $10 000 per month.
These apps are not as user-friendly as Tinder or Bumble, so it's important to learn how they operate. The main focus is on chatting with guys who purchase coins within the app to engage with you. These coins are then converted into points that can be exchanged for money. For every ten points earned, you receive $1. Additionally, you can accrue more points by sharing content, such as selfies. You have control over the coin amount required for others to view your shared images, which are initially blurred.
Moreover, these apps offer referral programs. They may run banners promoting special promotions for six weeks, encouraging users to sign up others using their unique promotion code. Special gifts, like pictures and videos, can also be advertised at specific "gift" prices, such as 399 points. The app provides performance tracking, and ranking among the top five or ten participants can earn you coin bonuses.
Unusual Requests and Unexpected Earnings
While some men may request real dates, I politely decline such invitations. These individuals are willingly paying to interact with women, so meeting them in person would likely entail more than a typical date.
If someone becomes annoying or tries to overstep boundaries, I promptly block them without giving a warning. Experience has taught me that offering warnings only leads to repeated boundary-pushing.
I've encountered situations where guys claimed to be unaware they were paying to talk to women on the app and became upset upon discovering this fact. They don't mind giving their money to anonymous app developers in a foreign country, but object when they realize it goes to the women they converse with.
The oddest request I received was from a man who wanted a picture of my feet holding a remote control. Surprisingly, I earned a significant amount of money from him. He always sought conversations and desired more unconventional content involving feet, such as standing on tiptoes or touching random objects.
Another individual asked me to send him videos of me spitting food on the floor, commanding him to eat it. He also enjoyed it when I demanded payment.
Promoting the Apps on Social Media to Make More Money
At the start, there was limited online content on how to succeed in this endeavor. Therefore, I created a YouTube channel and shared tutorials answering the questions I had.
I also started posting similar content on TikTok. As I gained more referrals through TikTok, I reduced my time spent on the apps to about 10 to 15 hours per week, exclusively engaging with a selected group of men. I provided them with a "girlfriend experience," being available for chats whenever they needed. Most men simply desire the feeling of being cared for. I find that being genuine and compassionate brings positive results.
Creating Viral TikTok Content to Promote the Apps
To make more money from referral commissions and bonuses within the Meete app, I started creating TikTok videos with the aim of going viral. The bonuses range from $30 for 50 000 views to $1 000 for over 2 million views. I've had over 50 TikToks go viral. Creating viral content is relatively easy. You have to keep generating as much content as possible and posting 10 to 20 times a day and some videos will definitely go viral.
While using TikTok, I search for trending sounds and customize them to my style. When I encounter a sound I like, I immediately create a video. Most of my videos feature text overlaying my face.
I've discovered that hashtags are not as crucial as making use of trends and consistently uploading content.
Transitioning to Full-Time Affiliate Marketing
When people ask about my occupation, I refer to myself as an affiliate marketer. About a year ago, I shifted my focus. I no longer use the app to engage with men. Once I became adept at marketing the apps effectively, I ceased pursuing money from conversations. It was mentally and physically taxing. The referral earnings became substantial enough that I no longer needed both avenues.
Each time someone signs up using my promo code, I earn a few cents. The earnings increase incrementally for every 100 referrals. On average, my links generate 200 000 to 300 000 clicks per month, which I track using Linktree. From these clicks, I obtain around 5 000 referrals monthly.
While many girls on the app still earn thousands per month conversing with men, my experience has transformed into an affiliate marketing career. I aspire to advocate for individuals who struggle with mental illnesses, letting them know that there are alternative ways to earn money beyond the traditional nine-to-five jobs.
Advocating for Alternative Income Opportunities
In my journey from making money from chatting with men on dating apps to working as an affiliate marketer, I have realized the importance of advocating for alternative income opportunities. Having bipolar disorder, I understand the challenges that individuals with mental illnesses face when it comes to finding and maintaining traditional jobs. The flexibility and potential for income in the affiliate marketing space have provided me with an alternative.
Through my online presence and content creation, I aim to inspire and support others who may be looking for non-conventional ways to earn money. I want to let them know that there are options available that cater to different strengths and circumstances. By sharing my story and experiences, I hope to empower individuals who may feel limited by their mental health challenges.
I want to break the stigma associated with earning money through online platforms like Meete and ToChat. Society often holds misconceptions about individuals who engage in such activities, assuming they are involved in questionable or morally ambiguous practices. However, it is important they understand that everyone's journey is unique, and individuals should be respected for the choices they make to support themselves financially.
As I continue my affiliate marketing career and advocate for alternative income opportunities, I remain committed to sharing insights, tips, and resources that can help others navigate this space successfully. I want to encourage individuals to explore their passions, leverage their strengths, and find financial stability in ways that work best for them.
Ultimately, my goal is to contribute to a world where individuals with mental illnesses can thrive and find fulfillment in their professional lives, breaking free from the limitations imposed by traditional employment models.
